Nobody hands you a rulebook, and most of what circulates online is either obvious or invented. So here is the honest version, from an agency that arranges these bookings every day: what separates a client companions are glad to see again from one they quietly decline.
None of it is complicated. Almost all of it comes down to treating the booking as an appointment with a professional.
Before she arrives
Shower. Properly.
This is the single most common thing companions mention, and it is not a small point. Shower shortly before the booking, clean your teeth, and go easy on aftershave. If you are booking outcall to a hotel after a long flight, build in fifteen minutes for this.
Have the fee ready in cash, in an envelope
Put it somewhere visible — the side table works — and do not count it out in front of her. This is the convention for a reason: it settles the money in three seconds so the rest of the time is not about money. Rates for every duration are set out in our London escort prices guide, so there is no reason for a surprise.
Do not haggle
The published rate is the rate. Asking for a discount reads as though you think her time is worth less than she says it is, and it is the fastest way to sour a booking before it starts. If the rate is above your budget, book someone whose rate is not, or book a shorter session — our roster runs from £200 to £750 an hour and five companions in six sit between £200 and £350.
Be where you said you would be
For outcall, give the hotel name and room number, and actually be in the room. For incall, arrive within a few minutes of the agreed time. Early is not better — she may be finishing getting ready.
During the booking
A listed service is an offer, not an obligation
This is the one that matters most. Every companion sets her own limits, and those limits hold regardless of what her profile lists or what you have paid. Ask on the phone beforehand rather than pushing in the moment. Our glossary of escort terms explains the abbreviations so you can ask clearly and in advance.
Do not ask about her real name or her private life
She has a working name for the same reason you probably would. Questions about her real name, where she actually lives, whether she has a partner, or why she does this are intrusive, and being asked them repeatedly is wearing. Talk about anything else.
Let her lead on pace
Particularly on a girlfriend experience booking, where the whole point is that it does not feel transactional. Rushing straight to the point defeats what you paid for. If you have booked ninety minutes rather than an hour, use the difference.
Keep your phone away
No photographs, no recording, not even discreetly. This is an absolute across the industry and a booking will end on the spot. Beyond that, simply not checking your phone is basic courtesy.
Afterwards
Say if you enjoyed it
Companions rarely hear it. A short message afterwards, or a word to us when you book again, means more than you would expect — and it is how we know who to recommend.
If you need to cancel, telephone early
Things come up and nobody minds a cancellation with notice. What does cause a problem is a companion travelling an hour across London to an empty hotel room. Telephone as soon as you know.
Discretion runs both ways
She will not discuss you. Extend the same courtesy: do not name her to friends, and do not post identifying detail online.
The short version
- Shower, and be on time.
- Cash ready, in an envelope, uncounted.
- Never haggle.
- Ask about services on the phone, not in the room.
- No photographs, ever.
- Her boundaries are not negotiable.
- Cancel early if you must cancel.
Do those seven things and you will be an easy client to say yes to. Browse the full gallery, or if this is your first booking, read how to book an escort in London first.
